If the incarnated soul is not performing the necessary task of enlightening itself and others, it will gradually lose its sense of being and existence, and will slowly enter in the state of un-wellness and dis-ease from all the maladies that the frequent visits to the dark provides .
The path of healing for a karmic love pattern involves an awareness of the karma pattern and its challenges, and the committed work of the transmutation of the “karmic debt” in question through re-calibration. We are in the evolutionary process in which the expression of love is still a confused process for many, with questions such as ownership and attachment in relation to our loved ones.
The only way for us to move closer to a loving cure of these unbalanced relations is for both individuals to acknowledge that both parts need to expand the loving energy that is infused in every relationship we maintain with all living beings.
The understanding of the process of human shortcomings and imperfections in the evolutionary path is part of learning the lessons administrated by walking upon the path of duality. We are all sentient beings pursuing understanding and happiness. We all commit mistakes.
The need for love that every human being seeks in this dimension is comparable and similar to the pattern of addiction, such as drunkenness or drugs. Some individuals regard love as a way of instant gratification, and when they can’t get to that stage, strangely enough, the shear promise of love can turn out to be a painful prison.